Sudden Inspiration

Its been long time since i scribbled . I had a tea party in my house and my friend Sheetal all of a sudden reminded me about my blogs and she asked why had i not contributed offlate ? then i questioned myself and resulted in zero. It just provked me now to read my blogs and thought to write few lines.

Week End at High Park,Toronto

It was a wonderful day - got to spend some time with Sheetal,sanjay and Vaishali and Rajeshwar family at the High Park , getting wet in the rain - infact it was our first outting since we came to Canada. Sinchu had a good time with her friends Sanika and Apporva. Had wonderful lunch - parotas by Vaishali, Chickpeas curry and vegetable rice by Shetal.

Outting with friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This time my vaccation was different - spending all the time at home not going anywhere but at the end it was a beautiful outting with my school friends. Though I had regular contacts with all of them but had no oppurtunity to meet all of them under one roof and this time did it!!!!!!!!!!!.
It was almost end of my holidays in India and had to head to canada with my family since My hubby had a new assignment and all of a sudden on Sat 24th Mar 2010 all of us - me, harshu, roopa, rashmi and srilaxshmi decide to go out for lunch the following week. And finally the day arrived and all of us met at my place and in rashmi's car we drove to the hotel had delicious food and good gossiping with frnds, talking almost about everyone whom we all had known, laughing, cutting jokes. The most intersting part of the outting was one of my school friend Chaitra joined us - i was seeing her almost after 10 years and she was the old kiddish girl who gets scared of her granny for very small things . The most funniest thing is though she is married, having one kid and expecting the other still is scared of her granny . After having good food went on a long drive till channpatna and way back had coffee at coffeeday and returned home.!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bye Bye America!!!!!!!!!!!

Always had a thought , a dream not to live United states but still the day came when I had say my Good Bye and head back to my country. 4.5 years of my stay was one of the Golden moments I have for the whole of my life to cheirsh . I learnt how to take the ups and downs in life. The most important thing i learnt was to pack things, hope i have learnt atleast 2 % of cooking. I understood the meanings of loneliness, helplessness, to control desires, ask permission from Husband for every need of yours which i dont like to do. Struggling to save money everymonth thinking that we can lead our future life with those dollars back in my country happily. Though had no work, no earrnings of my own, no new dress for every festival - which i had made a point in india to have one for each and every occasion that would come up in the family but still had some kind happiness with whatever i had. Did a perfect house wife role by watching tv, chatting and gossiping with friends, cleaning the house, cooking and waiting for my sweety and hubby to come home. I am still looking out for that precious thing in this country which makes my mind to leave my country , my people with whom i spent my 25 years and stay here happily everafter.As the saying goes " Man proposes and God disposes" i am leaving the country with a heavy heart but still taking good memories, friends, experience with me and waiting for another opportunity to come back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Moving to New House

It was 28th December and got up early in the Morning as we were shifting to a new appartment. We had decided this date about 15 days back after checking for the weather but still weather did not join hands with us it was snowing from the previous day and there was no sign for it to stop even on the day of our moving. In the snow we went to our new house signed the lease and did house warming ceremony( only 3 of us) and then went to rent the U-HAUL. We came to our old house by 12.00 in the afternoon and started to shift the household things in the snow - the first item (Mattress) which brought out of the house to move was a failure because it did not fit into the van and my husband as usual was very disappointed and started to say that he is not lucky and other things which hinders one's confidence. Then we put back the bed in the house and started bringing other things when we came to carry the sofa we felt that we cant do it alone and wanted somebodys help - actually my hubby had determined not to take anybodys help but thank god he made up his mind to take help from someone else we both would have landed hurting ourself and also getting physically overstrained. My friends Deepa and Priya's husbands came and helped us to move the sofa. Then we came to our new house and starting unloading the things , by then we were completely exhausted since we did not eat anything properly from morning expect for 2 breadslices for breakfast. Again my friends husands came and helped us to bring the sofa to our new house and then they advised my hubby that they would go to our old house and try to load the bed to the van and accordingly my hubby went with them and succesfully we could load the beds to the van - I am really thankful for them since they helped us in that bad weather. For the next 2 days we were totally exhausted setting up the house and on 30th we got the internet connection and when my hubby logged in there was a bad news awaiting for us and it was the death of DR.VISHNUVARDHAN one of the top heros of the Kannada film industry and one of my favourites too. When I read the news I was totally disturbed because just few days back i heard a death news of one of my relative and I had a feeling that I was loosing all my nearones and it was 4th bad news in my family for the year.

Well, we need to lead our life as it comes no matter who is with us or not.
Following day was the last day of the year and we went to hand over our old appartment keys to the landlord and then went to a Indian restaurant to have good dinner. We had good dinner but the bill at the end was bitter than the food.

I wish my family has lot of fun ,prosperity, good health, wealth in the year 2010.Looking forward for many more blogs from me in the new year.

MAY GOD BLESS US!!!!!!!!